Answer what is running and why.
ps
Everything, wide enough to read
ps auxww
Find a process by name fragment
ps aux | grep -v grep | grep '[n]ode'
The bracket trick stops grep from matching its own command line.
What is using memory right now
ps -eo pid,comm,rss --sort=-rss | head
Threads of one process
ps -T -p <pid> -o pid,tid,comm